I love you, I’m leaving you?

[countermart]

Thank you!

Guys, Just here to say thanks.

She wrote me a long letter saying she does not want to break up but thinks because I do not want a baby there is no choice. I am going to write back in a week or so and indicate that she does not have sufficient empathy for my situation and she should put the relationship first and not a baby, that after all the relationship is the basic foundation first.

In the end she can play by my rules or it looks like the end, and I live to love another day!

Thanks again,
Countermart

 

[Interceptor]

Countermart, she may not want to put the relationship first for you, if youre not satisfying her needs.

 

[countermart]

Yes, but

Thanks Interceptor, But I have come to the conclusion that the couple has to come first and the baby second. I know too many people with bad relationships that also have a baby and it's a mess.

For the most part we had a really great relationship, but I think the pressuring me with a baby and not coming up with enough of the, at least in part, taking responsibility for that baby, is not the right order of things and lacks empathy.

All a bit sad really, but I am doing ok and moving forward.

Countermart