"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i love the fact that i lost libido half year ago or more

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like man its ultimate OFFFF, can go nofap for month without any issues, i dont think nor crave sex/woman/woman touch at all this is insane its like they lost all value to me

id say this feeling is the same like the one from before you discovered sex and fapping. literal OFFFFFF
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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like man its ultimate OFFFF, can go nofap for month without any issues, i dont think nor crave sex/woman/woman touch at all this is insane its like they lost all value to me

id say this feeling is the same like the one from before you discovered sex and fapping. literal OFFFFFF
That can be a bad thing in the long run though because that could signify a lowering of Testosterone and/or increase in Estrogen/Cortisol.
 

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That is highly abnormal for a 28 year old male. Having a physically low libido and sex drive (medical condition) is 100% different than not being a slave to the p*ussy (proper mindset for a DJ). A continually low libido is often a sign of an underlying physical condition and in some cases, psychological condition.

There are many parts to the male sex drive but the number one moving part is testosterone production. There are many factors (you both control and cannot control) that determine how much T is produced. I'm over 45 and still have a strong sex drive. I'm on no meds and exercise a lot and have a healthy lifestyle, though.

Having zero sex drive is nothing to brag about, OP. You should really look into the reasons why: https://www.healthline.com/health/low-testosterone/conditions-that-cause-low-libido#drug-use

Good luck.
 
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That is highly abnormal for a 28 year old male. Having a physically low libido and sex drive (medical condition) is 100% different than not being a slave to the p*ussy (proper mindset for a DJ). A continually low libido if often a sign of an underlying physical condition and in some cases, psychological condition.

There are many parts to the male sex drive but the number one moving part is testosterone production. There are many factors (you both control and cannot control) that determine how much T is produced. I'm over 45 and still have a strong sex drive. I'm on no meds and exercise a lot and have a healthy lifestyle, though.

Having zero sex drive is nothing to brag about, OP. You should really look into the reasons why: https://www.healthline.com/health/low-testosterone/conditions-that-cause-low-libido#drug-use

Good luck.
lulz am 23
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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like man its ultimate OFFFF, can go nofap for month without any issues, i dont think nor crave sex/woman/woman touch at all this is insane its like they lost all value to me

id say this feeling is the same like the one from before you discovered sex and fapping. literal OFFFFFF
I don't think that's true because I'm the same way like you are and still am subject to getting lustful thoughts or if I look at a dirty internet image then it's impossible to say that wouldn't be arousing.

I think this might be a case of sour grapes. You are not getting women, tired of getting rejected, or experience more trouble than pleasure dealing with women, so your system just has a block to getting aroused because you decided they are more trouble then they are worth. Congrats on quitting porn! Did you go in some program or decide to quit that? You probably had to quit that in order to be like this now because I don't see any other way that's possible to be not aroused by women.
 

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i agree that not being sexually frustrated or h0rny is pretty awesome. so what if this guy lost his libido due to MGTOW thoughts. having a libido can get you into a lot of trouble when you think about it. just ask Jeffrey Epstein.
 

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lulz am 23
Only 7 more years until you reach full Wizard Status lol. Just kidding.

How long have you been on nofap? There have been some cases of long-term nofap-ers where their libidos have basically shut down. Some have actually gone back to fap and porn temporarily to “prime the pump.”
 
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I've abstained for months and hadn't lost any drive. In fact it made me want to bang ugly girls.
 
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