"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I Love New York pt.2

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Have you guys seen this show lately? I'ts rediculous. Most all the guys on there shower her with gifts and money!!! LOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was watching this the other day. If you ever wanted to see AFCism at it's finest, there you go.
 

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shes famous, and they are not

they FEEL that they are below her status wise

the show isnt accurate when it comes to how those guys act around women that they ****........the show is literally a CONTEST

this is not somethin up for discussion on sosuave lol


SIDE NOTE - this took the time slot of The Pickup Artist LOL
 

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I Love New York II

Watch Buddha on that show.........that is a real man........and Ms NY is trying to make him into a ***** and its not working, i really love how Buddha stands up for all the Don Juans out there

i hope some of you guys watch this show
 

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I think the dude is secretly a member in the forums. Prolly on this website when the cameras aren't rolling.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Buddah is the only one on that show who doesnt act like a p*ssy. If Buddah doesn't win then I think the show is completely fake. I cant understand why I watch the show but their is something interesting about it.
 

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NY is as fake as you can get. The only reason the guys go crazy over her is because she is the only girl around. And the show is scripted to boot. Most of the guys are playing a role and trying to get screen time.
 

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Buddha, the only guy that was a true DJ lost out to guy that was the anti-DJ, the biggest ass-kissing AFC on the show. If that was entirely scripted, then no explanation needed. But if it wasn't, that leaves me scratching my head in terms of all we've learned.
 

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i love this show man, its funny...and i dont think its totally scripted, theyre jus influenced sometimes to make the show more interesting

people jus gotta understand that this isnt necessarily how u should treat women, its jus wut works for this one crazy ass girl who was hooked on flavor flav at one point in time...even she admitted that buddha was "driving her crazy" cus of all the **** he did. she didnt choose him cus she was prolly thinkin "this dude is a bonafide player"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This show irritates the crap out of me. I hate it when people get famous for "having relations" with someone else.
 

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paintballz said:
show = garbage
I see one good thing out of that show, referencing it is the only way that I ever get to use the term "hood rat."
 

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can someone remind me what the fvck new york is famous for?
 
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