"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I Love New York pt.2

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Have you guys seen this show lately? I'ts rediculous. Most all the guys on there shower her with gifts and money!!! LOL
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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speakeasy

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I was watching this the other day. If you ever wanted to see AFCism at it's finest, there you go.
 

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shes famous, and they are not

they FEEL that they are below her status wise

the show isnt accurate when it comes to how those guys act around women that they ****........the show is literally a CONTEST

this is not somethin up for discussion on sosuave lol


SIDE NOTE - this took the time slot of The Pickup Artist LOL
 

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I Love New York II

Watch Buddha on that show.........that is a real man........and Ms NY is trying to make him into a ***** and its not working, i really love how Buddha stands up for all the Don Juans out there

i hope some of you guys watch this show
 

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I think the dude is secretly a member in the forums. Prolly on this website when the cameras aren't rolling.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Buddah is the only one on that show who doesnt act like a p*ssy. If Buddah doesn't win then I think the show is completely fake. I cant understand why I watch the show but their is something interesting about it.
 

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NY is as fake as you can get. The only reason the guys go crazy over her is because she is the only girl around. And the show is scripted to boot. Most of the guys are playing a role and trying to get screen time.
 

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Buddha, the only guy that was a true DJ lost out to guy that was the anti-DJ, the biggest ass-kissing AFC on the show. If that was entirely scripted, then no explanation needed. But if it wasn't, that leaves me scratching my head in terms of all we've learned.
 

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i love this show man, its funny...and i dont think its totally scripted, theyre jus influenced sometimes to make the show more interesting

people jus gotta understand that this isnt necessarily how u should treat women, its jus wut works for this one crazy ass girl who was hooked on flavor flav at one point in time...even she admitted that buddha was "driving her crazy" cus of all the **** he did. she didnt choose him cus she was prolly thinkin "this dude is a bonafide player"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This show irritates the crap out of me. I hate it when people get famous for "having relations" with someone else.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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paintballz said:
show = garbage
I see one good thing out of that show, referencing it is the only way that I ever get to use the term "hood rat."
 

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can someone remind me what the fvck new york is famous for?
 
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