You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Start by being more aware of what your saying to yourself and how you feel in situations. Just think positively in every situation. Keep in mind that your behaviour is a result of what you have been thinking all your life so you can change it.nando said:
slaog said:Start by being more aware of what your saying to yourself and how you feel in situations. Just think positively in every situation. Keep in mind that your behaviour is a result of what you have been thinking all your life so you can change it.