I look like a "baby"? Natural Nice guy look help.

[cannibustacap]

Originally posted by jason86
And i think while you got that fat on your face, grow some kind of facial hair. Goatee, beard or whatever. It will help hide the fat on your face but when you have lost the fat, try out the clean shaven look. You actually looked good in the second pic with that beard. Just a lighter beard though.

This fat face obstacle maybe an advantage. I like to look at the positive side of things. Girls give me little to no IL. So I could mope about it and change my features... but instead it motivates me to learn seduction: the art of getting girls from low IL to high IL.

Don't get me wrong, I am going to lose this damned weight... but until then I will work on my game with my disadvantages. I personally don't like beards because it is hard to manage and looks worse at different angles in my opinion.

Anyway, I really like swinggcat's ideas on seduction, but this is besides the point. I thought I'd say it.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by jason86


And i think while you got that fat on your face, grow some kind of facial hair. Goatee, beard or whatever.

I think my face looks thicker when i have facial hair.

 

[Jippii]

Ok well I think you really need to work on working out, not just for weeks, months but Years. If you need any motivation go here and read this post!!!!http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=266963


I read the whole damn thing, even though I'm adding weight, because it's just so impressive!

 

[Jippii]

Here are a couple of his pics so you can see the difference it makes when you get in good shape.
Before ('99)

August '04

 

[Levex]

damn...in that last pic your eyebrows look like they're gonna fall off any second. do yourself a favor and never get them "fixed" again. if anything it makes you look more baby-like.

just lose some weight,improve your posture and get some stylish clothes(get rid of those pants), dont do anymore of this cosmetic bull****. you dont have any major flaws, so with some effort you'll look good.

 

[cannibustacap]

Ok here is me with a little bit of a 5 o'clock shadow:

Same pic but I focused more on one just in case you guys have small monitors or something.

 

[NewMan]

Ok...

Don't ever go back to that salon.

Your eyebrows look like you've drawn them in with a marker.

I think you need some length in your hair on top. you face looks blocky with your hair like that.

#1 issue is you weight.

I've said it earlier - but you've got to lose the puppy fat.

I wouldn't worry to much about gaining muscle and working out heavy. Lose the fat first then gain the muscle. Cardio, cardio, cardio - with weight training.

Talk about improving your game all you want. Unless you ship up and lose the weight your wasting your time.

 

[Jariel]

Yes, losing the weight will make a big diffence, but I want to point out that you should'nt view it as a long task with a goal at the end. That's how a lot of people view losing weight and that can be very offputting.

You don't have to get to -10% body fat before you start to look good. You will start to notice improvements with every few lbs you lose and that will motivate you to lose more.

What's more, you probably don't have to lose as much as you think. I expect a lot of your weight and mass is muscle and once you lose the overlaying bodyfat, you'll start to see the definition beneath.

 

[cannibustacap]

Originally posted by NewMan
Ok...

Don't ever go back to that salon.

Your eyebrows look like you've drawn them in with a marker.

I think you need some length in your hair on top. you face looks blocky with your hair like that.

#1 issue is you weight.

I've said it earlier - but you've got to lose the puppy fat.

I wouldn't worry to much about gaining muscle and working out heavy. Lose the fat first then gain the muscle. Cardio, cardio, cardio - with weight training.

Talk about improving your game all you want. Unless you ship up and lose the weight your wasting your time.

well I don't want to get out of the game while I'm losing weight. The chase is still fun.

But yea.. I thought the salon people will give the best opinions about what looks good. I personally like my eye brows. Maybe after a close analysis it looks blocky or whatever.

If you guys can give me a picture of a good hairstyle for me (like an online picture) I can show the salon worker the picture and she can emulate it. I'll just need to grow my hair for awhile.

Thanks for all your input and I am dieting like crazy. About 1000-1500 calories eaten a day plus weight lifting. I don't do that much cardio, but I walk a lot during the day. I should run the track for like an hour a few times a week. I may just start doing that. I have been bogged down with multiple midterms for the past month.

Anyway, keep the "constructive criticism" coming. I'll post pics every so often I guess.


The weird thing is when someone asks if I want to go to dinner or if I want to eat some of their food in their dorm room, and I say "nah I'm dieting" they look at me kinda shocked. They give me the "why are you dieting??" look. Some of them even say that. I guess they don't realize the baby-face is because of the fat.

 

[BigWillyStyle]

You should take pictures of yourself in only your underwear, in the same pose every 2 weeks. Then after 4-5 months or so you can look back at the pics and see what a difference you've made, physically, from dieting and exercise, good motivation booster.

 

[Cutiepiie]

UMMM NO!!

DONT TAKE PICS IN UNDERWEAR!!

DONT TAKE PICS EVER AGAIN!!

MATTER FACT THROW AWAY YOUR CAMERA!!

OH AND ITS A JOKE...YOU SUPPOSE TO LAUGH

 

[cannibustacap]

Originally posted by Cutiepiie
UMMM NO!!

DONT TAKE PICS IN UNDERWEAR!!

DONT TAKE PICS EVER AGAIN!!

MATTER FACT THROW AWAY YOUR CAMERA!!

OH AND ITS A JOKE...YOU SUPPOSE TO LAUGH

el oh el

 

[il_duce]

Originally posted by Cutiepiie
UMMM NO!!

DONT TAKE PICS IN UNDERWEAR!!

DONT TAKE PICS EVER AGAIN!!

MATTER FACT THROW AWAY YOUR CAMERA!!

OH AND ITS A JOKE...YOU SUPPOSE TO LAUGH

Uhhh...wtf?

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Jippii
Here are a couple of his pics so you can see the difference it makes when you get in good shape.
Before ('99)

August '04

Amazing transformation. That is amazing - congratulations.

 

[MindOverMatter]

it's a interesting thread, about that guy's transformation

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=266963

check out all the pics he posted, and compare the girls he dated when he was fat, to the girls he dated when he was in his best shape. and people say attraction for women is like a volume knob that turns slowly upwards. It's such bs, women think the same way we do when it comes to physical attraction, it's an on and off switch.

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
compare the girls he dated when he was fat, to the girls he dated when he was in his best shape. and people say attraction for women is like a volume knob that turns slowly upwards. It's such bs, women think the same way we do when it comes to physical attraction, it's an on and off switch.

A VERY good point, and who can dispute that evidence?

Incidentally, that guy's change is astounding!

 

[nan3109]

get a pacificer

 

[slickjesse]

sorry guys but goatees are so lame that its funny. just grow out your hair and lose a little weight, youll be fine.