“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I look like a "baby"? Natural Nice guy look help.

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I'm a mans man :D
 

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I'm going to a salon tomorrow to get my eye brows waxed for the first time (YIKES!!) and getting my hair done.


Any suggestions for a hair style.

I currently rotate between

Back and puffy (a bit spiky)
Slick back and flat
and all the way forward and up at the top


I use gel so it looks wet and you can kinda see the white of my scalp a bit. I have a friend who said thats not too great and he suggested I use "Murrays" (black man's wax) its like that vasaline stuff that feels like glue in your hair. I tried it once and it looked pretty good, but it is a pain the ass to work it.

Anyway what do you guys suggest. Hopefully I'll get some good replys before 12pm tomorrow.
 

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haha ye i do look a bit girlie in that pic, but hell I bet I can get more hbs than you ;)
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Your problem isn't your hair or eyes it's your sefl confidence and body.

Are you a man or what?

Get your hair buzzed - keep it longer on the top and wax/gel it. It's not that difficult.

Spend the money on a gym membership.
 

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Originally posted by NewMan
Your problem isn't your hair or eyes it's your sefl confidence and body.

Are you a man or what?

Get your hair buzzed - keep it longer on the top and wax/gel it. It's not that difficult.

Spend the money on a gym membership.
Speak of the devil I am going to a gym. I am hardcore into body building right now, but I am in the cutting phase.

Check out www.johnstonefitness.com

I guess the fact that no girls show much interest in me at all messes up my confidence. Whatever, I am focusing on myself right now. You have to be confortable and love who you are as a single in order to be successfull with anyone else.

So I am working on myself. I am asking for your guys' advice.
 

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U look alright in the second one.

Use contacts and dont wear baseball caps loose a little weight you'll be fine. Dont need no eyebrow ****.
 

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I don't know why no one mentioned this, but you gotta work on your clothes too, man.

Some more stylish gear will definitely help you out. Read up on posts about how to dress, check out the stores at the mall, and check out magazines on clothes that make a man look good.

As for the other shiet, stay on your diet, get the best haircut possible, and grow a goatee. F the beard unless you can pull off a decent 5'o clock shadow.

It seems like you're kinda lazy about maintaining yourself judging from previous posts. I don't remember a single post saying becoming a DJ would be easy. Keep working hard man.

-AL
 

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SOLID is pretty boy personified.

cannibustacap lose weight 1st then go figure out what look you want, you should look decent enough after the weight loss IMO
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Same problem for years here. FINALLY I grew a goatee. Wow. Talk about instant transformation. Huge difference, lot more female interest.

I think your lack of confidence is tricking you - you look average or better in the second picture. I know women who would be all over you.

Maybe slim down a little but work on the self confidence more! You're not ugly by a long shot!
 

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yesterday i went to eat at a restaurant with my hockey tyeam mates after out game. My team mate next to me (were both the same age) ordered a beer and i ordered one too. the waiter asked for my ID but didnt ask for his. I turned to him and sauid" HEy, why'd he ask me for ID and not u?" He replied " well u got that baby face going"

thats when it hit me. I have a baby face (but im a fairly attractive guy) and maybe a lot of girls think im a nice guy

let me tell u something though. Ev en though u may look like a nice guy , u dont have to act like one. To make urself look more tough u need to

1 : hit the gym and buld some muscle
2: buy a gold chain necklace , because it will make u looke tougher
3 get a tan

- this next ones my favourite, its what i did to feel like a badass
4: Buy a black leather jacket. itle make u feel like u wanna do something illegal

-ratisson
 

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Here is a newer picture. I got my hair cut and eye-brows fixed in it. I think it shows more but I still need to lose the weight.

 

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you need to grow your hair more, and get a chopey cut. The top of your head needs to appear wider than the bottom, you do this by spiking your hair out. Get some nicer cloths, stop wearing baggy stuff!. Your looking alot better, but still room for improvement!
 

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The reason he's wearing baggy clothes is because he's conscious of his fat. That's understandable. The FIRST thing this guy needs to do is lose weight - all the makeup, hairplugs, and waxing in the world won't do anythng for him until he loses weight. He lives in Sunny SoCal, for Chrissake! A hardbody is at a premium in those locations.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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hey man im a amature competitive bodybuilder if you need any help losing weight. just shoot me a pm if you need some help
 

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I suffer from the baby face syndrome.

It really does help losing weight, I had a visible notice of facial structure. It was so great all my friends were taken back by how different I looked.

Lose weight, it helps.
 

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You probably don't want to hear this after getting a new fresh haircut but yeh you need to grow your hair out. On the top grow it more on the sides. It will then help hide the baby face look.

Losing the fat on your face will obviously also help A LOT. Thats easily the main obstacle for you at the moment, so concentrate on that.

And i think while you got that fat on your face, grow some kind of facial hair. Goatee, beard or whatever. It will help hide the fat on your face but when you have lost the fat, try out the clean shaven look. You actually looked good in the second pic with that beard. Just a lighter beard though.
 
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