"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I look f*ckin hot in a suit.

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LostAndConfused

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You either pull it all off or you don't do it at all.

So many guys try to go for the Oceans 13 look and then half a$$ it with a pair of jeans.

They look like they are half man, half boy.
Yeah but since when have jeans represented a lack of manliness? :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LostAndConfused said:
Yeah but since when have jeans represented a lack of manliness? :confused:
I didn't say that.

Just don't wear both a blazer and jeans.

With jeans you can pull off the sexy look. Like this...
 

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Ahh YOU HAVE NO IDEA ! i be wearin suitse in erryday like is in my religion ya dig? Shhh haters be all lookin askin me wtf why u lookin so fly? i say cuz i got 2.... pssshh Step your game up is what i really tell these poor dressed cuz... Girls are more attracted to everythin another man don have u feel? especially if they have it and show it real good nam sayin..!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MAN INSIDE MAN STFU! wtf is wrong with a man tryin 2 look and feel good? Yo bitc azz needs 2 keep the trap shUT! and lette the gentlemens do whatever they FUCIN WANT! SHUT THE FUC UP AND TRY TO CONTRIBUTE INSTEAD OF FUCIN TALKIN YOU TRAP ~
 

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Hey mongol boy, don't try to give a man advice, and by the way trying to type like you're from the hood makes you look more like an idiot. Listen to what I'm saying, and if you wear a suit everyday you are def. overcompensating for something. Get back to the highschool forum, if you talked to me like that in real life I would rip your head off your shoulders. Talkin tough on the internet makes you feel just as cool as wearing a suit all the time huh?
 

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mongolboy, shut the fvck up
 

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LOL RIP MY HEAD OFF !!! COME TO ROCKY MOUNTAIN BAD BOYS AT FEBRUAR 22nd at the PALADIUM MOTHERFUCER AND THEN WELL SEE WHO RIPS EACH OTHERS HEAD OFF PLZ MOTHA FUCA IF U RIP MY HEAD OFF... OH WELL I GOT A 100 STRONG NIGA PLZ I AM FROM THE HOOD, 10X MORE HOOD THAN YOUR AMERICAN PLZ..OMG U DUNNO WHO UR FUCIN WITH AND I GOT NOTHIN 2 PROVE
 

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And Motha Fuca Dont Even Try, Ur Not Even Worth My Time Im Gettin Busy Gettin Ready For The Olympics.. ***** Ass Ho Why Don U Try To Contribute Instead Of Get Yo Ass Knocked Out. U Aint Even At 1/10 Of My Level U Not Even Worth Thinkin About.! Plz That Is The 100% Truth
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Inside Man said:
You guys don't think constantly dressing in a suit could be....trying to make up for something else? Before you call me a hater, just think about it. I dress up when I go out, have a job interview, but thats about it. And that's usually just a shirt and tie. I think the reason you get haters is because you believe you're somehow better than other people that aren't dressed up when you are. Not a good attitude to have. Why would you want to mess with a suit all the time anyway? By the way I'm 23 and pursuing my master's in case you were going to say I'm uneducated or young. It's good to be comfortable in your own skin, or jeans and a t shirt.
Being comfortable in one's own skin is a trait that must be cultured and achieved. Having a narcissistic personality where external validation is necessary in order to achieve a sense of self worth and mild superiority is a severe problem. Wearing a suit ALL of the time is blatantly screaming for attention. What's the underlying motive for that attention? I think Inside Man makes a distinct point when he questions that motive with substituting self acknowledgement for affirmation and negligable attention.
 

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good point there Karma Sutra but im sayin mota fucas instead of talkin sht about what loooks bad why don u try to contribute, and who cares if some1 is wearin a suit all the time ? huh why the FU C does it effect you...
 

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Lol Lol Lol Lol Im Not Even Gonna Respond To That Im Just Gonna Say That Is The Opposite Of Me
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lol thought u said don feed the troll which was referrin to me, now u tryin 2 feed it ? i like you karma sutra im not even gonna try to argue with you cuz u are a kind and noble man LOL! really though from the bottom of my heart and i prolly got a lot to learn but baby im healthy and im wealthy and if my life was any better i think it was a set up !
 

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mongolboy said:
lol thought u said don feed the troll which was referrin to me, now u tryin 2 feed it ? i like you karma sutra im not even gonna try to argue with you cuz u are a kind and noble man LOL! really though from the bottom of my heart and i prolly got a lot to learn but baby im healthy and im wealthy and if my life was any better i think it was a set up !
I'll give everyone the benefit of the doubt young one but don't ever mistake kindness for weakness. Your tone is abhorrent and a poor example of the MAN you should be. Wouldn't it be beneficial to your own self worth to add a positive note rather than throw out some faux-hip gangsta- wannabe smack?

I know you're better than this.
 

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baby who i am is who i am, im liked by many and hated by man that is just the nature of life, im in the gangster and rap game, i was grew up and raised in the "ghetto" i officially sell more than 1,000 rare pair of kicks, i have 3 platinum hit records under my company baby ? and now im abouts 2 start distrubutin L-R-G to asia? man come on baby i dun wanna argue with you
 

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i have 3 platinum hit records under my company baby
I have three platinum hit records in my cd changer but it doesn't dictate who I am or that I'm better than anyone else. My young friend you need to learn some humility.
 

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foo how the hell did i say was more better or more important than others? the only thing that makes us better is our pshychology, the only thing that makes us better these days is the size of your wallet and ur pic's in the magazines dont come here tryin 2 teach me all this Hindu bs i knw this **** already im buddhist, nothin u can teach me old man id rather worry about my self and what i gotta go do for the rest of ur 10, 000 days u got left rather than worryin about some "ghetto" ass kid in the web
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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