http://www.theaustralian.com.au/new...r-midlife-romeos/story-e6frg6zo-1225866688363
can't wait til i turn 30...:trouble:
can't wait til i turn 30...:trouble:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I LOLd hard - must read article
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
zekko
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I found this interesting:
Younger guys, get out there and get that education.
Also this:
Maybe I'm more of a catch than I thought (and I know I'm a good catch).
Younger guys, get out there and get that education.
Also this:
I'll be 50 before the end of the year (wow, 49 is going fast). Assuming my girlfriend and I don't break up I'll be one of the 2.7 percent!
backbreaker
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the best thing a man that is 25 can do (my age) is to put women on the back-burner and make his way in the world. his little jimmy will thank him later in life.
it's really not that complicated. if you take care of yourself, have no huge baggage, you will be fighting them off. my dad is 50, is married, and makes about 40k a year, maybe a tad more, and has a Rolodex of every bgit of 20-30 women at any time.. of nice prime ass women, some my age. he is not a model athlete but he hits the gym everyday.. he doesn't' take his diet too seriously but he does watch what he eats and makes sure he eats a salad a day, tries to stay away from too many soft drinks, **** like that, grooms himself nicely and can dress his ass off.
it's really not that complicated. if you take care of yourself, have no huge baggage, you will be fighting them off. my dad is 50, is married, and makes about 40k a year, maybe a tad more, and has a Rolodex of every bgit of 20-30 women at any time.. of nice prime ass women, some my age. he is not a model athlete but he hits the gym everyday.. he doesn't' take his diet too seriously but he does watch what he eats and makes sure he eats a salad a day, tries to stay away from too many soft drinks, **** like that, grooms himself nicely and can dress his ass off.
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No surprise to anyone on these forums. Men age like whiskey, women age like milk.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Keep in mind that while the quantity of women available to you goes up as you age, the quality generally goes down. This causes older men to "pump and dump" lots of women which makes the cycle continue. By the time you're a 50 year old man I assume that the 50 year old women around you are truly in bad shape. Which is probably why it's no surprise that older men try to find younger women.