http://www.theaustralian.com.au/new...r-midlife-romeos/story-e6frg6zo-1225866688363
can't wait til i turn 30...:trouble:
can't wait til i turn 30...:trouble:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I LOLd hard - must read article
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
zekko
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I found this interesting:
Younger guys, get out there and get that education.
Also this:
Maybe I'm more of a catch than I thought (and I know I'm a good catch).
Younger guys, get out there and get that education.
Also this:
I'll be 50 before the end of the year (wow, 49 is going fast). Assuming my girlfriend and I don't break up I'll be one of the 2.7 percent!
backbreaker
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the best thing a man that is 25 can do (my age) is to put women on the back-burner and make his way in the world. his little jimmy will thank him later in life.
it's really not that complicated. if you take care of yourself, have no huge baggage, you will be fighting them off. my dad is 50, is married, and makes about 40k a year, maybe a tad more, and has a Rolodex of every bgit of 20-30 women at any time.. of nice prime ass women, some my age. he is not a model athlete but he hits the gym everyday.. he doesn't' take his diet too seriously but he does watch what he eats and makes sure he eats a salad a day, tries to stay away from too many soft drinks, **** like that, grooms himself nicely and can dress his ass off.
it's really not that complicated. if you take care of yourself, have no huge baggage, you will be fighting them off. my dad is 50, is married, and makes about 40k a year, maybe a tad more, and has a Rolodex of every bgit of 20-30 women at any time.. of nice prime ass women, some my age. he is not a model athlete but he hits the gym everyday.. he doesn't' take his diet too seriously but he does watch what he eats and makes sure he eats a salad a day, tries to stay away from too many soft drinks, **** like that, grooms himself nicely and can dress his ass off.
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No surprise to anyone on these forums. Men age like whiskey, women age like milk.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Keep in mind that while the quantity of women available to you goes up as you age, the quality generally goes down. This causes older men to "pump and dump" lots of women which makes the cycle continue. By the time you're a 50 year old man I assume that the 50 year old women around you are truly in bad shape. Which is probably why it's no surprise that older men try to find younger women.