http://www.theaustralian.com.au/new...r-midlife-romeos/story-e6frg6zo-1225866688363
can't wait til i turn 30...:trouble:
can't wait til i turn 30...:trouble:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I LOLd hard - must read article
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
zekko
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I found this interesting:
Younger guys, get out there and get that education.
Also this:
Maybe I'm more of a catch than I thought (and I know I'm a good catch).
Younger guys, get out there and get that education.
Also this:
I'll be 50 before the end of the year (wow, 49 is going fast). Assuming my girlfriend and I don't break up I'll be one of the 2.7 percent!
backbreaker
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the best thing a man that is 25 can do (my age) is to put women on the back-burner and make his way in the world. his little jimmy will thank him later in life.
it's really not that complicated. if you take care of yourself, have no huge baggage, you will be fighting them off. my dad is 50, is married, and makes about 40k a year, maybe a tad more, and has a Rolodex of every bgit of 20-30 women at any time.. of nice prime ass women, some my age. he is not a model athlete but he hits the gym everyday.. he doesn't' take his diet too seriously but he does watch what he eats and makes sure he eats a salad a day, tries to stay away from too many soft drinks, **** like that, grooms himself nicely and can dress his ass off.
it's really not that complicated. if you take care of yourself, have no huge baggage, you will be fighting them off. my dad is 50, is married, and makes about 40k a year, maybe a tad more, and has a Rolodex of every bgit of 20-30 women at any time.. of nice prime ass women, some my age. he is not a model athlete but he hits the gym everyday.. he doesn't' take his diet too seriously but he does watch what he eats and makes sure he eats a salad a day, tries to stay away from too many soft drinks, **** like that, grooms himself nicely and can dress his ass off.
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No surprise to anyone on these forums. Men age like whiskey, women age like milk.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Keep in mind that while the quantity of women available to you goes up as you age, the quality generally goes down. This causes older men to "pump and dump" lots of women which makes the cycle continue. By the time you're a 50 year old man I assume that the 50 year old women around you are truly in bad shape. Which is probably why it's no surprise that older men try to find younger women.