"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I live with her but its too hard to leave getting really fvckin irratated

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Ive been living with my gf for a couple of months been with her for about a year.things are usually ok. But for the last week weve been fighting over stupid things making each other pissed. Ive never lived with a gf before and I dont know what to do. I have a job up here the town is not too big its a decent paying job. If i left i would have to move out of this town. Im giong kind of crazy at the same time im trying to patch things up put im fvckin irratated
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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couples always have fights,

it's how you deal w/ them.

are you gonna talk things out and make up or walk out like a pvssy
 
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Living w/ a girl is a huge mistake for a young guy. If you try to move out now, she'll freak and it won't be worth it to keep her as GF. I've done it too though, learned my lesson. The GF I was with wanted to rearrange the furniture like every week. I like you, got very irritated and bailed out.

I'd advise you to look for roomates and move. You shouldn't be miserable at home man. If it is 'her' place you are really screwed, if it your place, kick her out.
 
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MKS82: how old are you?
 
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i'm guessing the 82 on the end of his name stands for 1982? So that would make him 23ish.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yep im 23 its actually too hard living with her but its when we get in arguments I basically have no where to go expect drive somewhere
 
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