"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I live with her but its too hard to leave getting really fvckin irratated

MKS82

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Ive been living with my gf for a couple of months been with her for about a year.things are usually ok. But for the last week weve been fighting over stupid things making each other pissed. Ive never lived with a gf before and I dont know what to do. I have a job up here the town is not too big its a decent paying job. If i left i would have to move out of this town. Im giong kind of crazy at the same time im trying to patch things up put im fvckin irratated
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Zhen

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couples always have fights,

it's how you deal w/ them.

are you gonna talk things out and make up or walk out like a pvssy
 

crowes22

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Living w/ a girl is a huge mistake for a young guy. If you try to move out now, she'll freak and it won't be worth it to keep her as GF. I've done it too though, learned my lesson. The GF I was with wanted to rearrange the furniture like every week. I like you, got very irritated and bailed out.

I'd advise you to look for roomates and move. You shouldn't be miserable at home man. If it is 'her' place you are really screwed, if it your place, kick her out.
 

Climax

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MKS82: how old are you?
 

Austizzle

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i'm guessing the 82 on the end of his name stands for 1982? So that would make him 23ish.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MKS82

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yep im 23 its actually too hard living with her but its when we get in arguments I basically have no where to go expect drive somewhere
 
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