"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Man I am really getting bored of this now, your talking away to me but I know what you are doing, you are trying to pick me up. Here's me trying to have a good time, trying to meet and greet as many people as possible and then there is you, shamelessly flirting with me. And I dont know why all I do is slag you of, 'am I being serious?'(retorical) oh you bet, cant you get the hint. It obvious, everyone can tell that your into me, this friendship thing is not going to work between us, how am I ever going to get you to leave me alone. Hey I might have to kiss you to get you of my back because if I dont you wont go away. Once you see that I am so good at kissing you'll not want to bother yourself with me again, you'll feel embarassed like I am out of your league or something. Wait you want more than a kiss, you'll have to be a v.good girl and get very lucky. 'Please' oh alright since you are so nice and all, but listen you better not be taking advantage of me!!! Oh stop it...your bad.:cool: :rolleyes:

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you a schizophrenic?
 

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Uhh ... hell yeah, man!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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