"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I like getting you off"....grr

whatdude

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As of late everytime me and my girl fvck, I never get to get her off. She won't let me or some sh1t. I admit im a one-minute man... but she knows after I blow the first time I last forever afterward. So, as of late, everytime I blow inside of her, she cleans up and I ask her if shes ready and she says "I just like getting you off" And im like well wtf.. and I like getting YOU off.

Man, I don't know what to fvckin think. I know I should be grateful... but... lol.. I still wanna fvck.. ya know? I know for a fact I make her come... and when she does.. she comes hard, so I don't know what the big deal is. Maybe shes gettin d1ck somewhere else? Or perhaps shes too tired.. because when we fvck its usually very late at night.. and she works. So.. I don't know what to fvckin think. Any advice?

Later pimps
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BuckwildNYC

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Are you getting her warmed up before sex? Girls need alot of foreplay to get aroused.
 

S1NN3R

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My gues would be that she doesn't enjoy sex with you that much, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
 

blinkwatt

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how long have you been a one-minute man? How often do you two fcuk?
 

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It sounds like your one-minute man syndrome has made her think less of you as a kingpin in bed. You need to remedy this fact by spending more time on foreplay with her and getting her highly aroused before you two fvck. And perhaps you should (instead of fvcking), you should let her go down on you to get you warmed up and off for the first time. Then once you've got that preliminary out of your system, you can show her the mad skills you claim to have.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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whatdude

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Nah, i get her mad wet.... she is the one who is the aggressor most of the time... she tells me to fvck her.... and we've only fvcked 7 times... we just started dating... and this is the girl i lost my v-card to... but when we first started to fvck... i made her come.. real hard. But ive noticed this was in the daytime, and lately we've been fvcking real late at night.. and she may be too tired to want more?

I really don't know... but im gonna get off topic real quick... are there desensitizing products to buy for a d1ck... so you dont come too quick?

Thanks and

Later
 

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We don't use condoms cuz shes on the pill.... there aren't any creams or 'rubs' or whatever to wipe on?

Later
 

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Yes, just wack off before you start, it helps... a lot! ;-)
 

Jariel

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Are you rough with her? Maybe you're hurting her but she's too polite to tell you.

I had a similar problem. First few times I spent the night with her, we had sex once, then she'd avoid doing it again that night. Eventually she came clean and told me I was being too rough with her and was leaving her too sore to have sex again. She asked me to slow down a little in future and not go so deep, and problem sorted.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJDamage

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LOL I still don't see what the problem is, bro you got it made.

This chick likes to satisfy her man and doesn't complain like alot of other chicks. As long as she doesn't denie having sex with you then continue having fun because she is enjoying it too. Chicks do not need to have orgasm every time, unlike ours their's are fickle.

DJD
 

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Have her give you head first until you ***. Then give her head until you can get it up again or she cums. Then have sex with her.

Practice wacking off until just before you *** and then stop and let it go back down. This will teach you the skill to hold it. I learned this from my buddy at http://Playersupreme.libsyn.com

Good luck to you.
 
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