Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"I like getting you off"....grr

whatdude

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As of late everytime me and my girl fvck, I never get to get her off. She won't let me or some sh1t. I admit im a one-minute man... but she knows after I blow the first time I last forever afterward. So, as of late, everytime I blow inside of her, she cleans up and I ask her if shes ready and she says "I just like getting you off" And im like well wtf.. and I like getting YOU off.

Man, I don't know what to fvckin think. I know I should be grateful... but... lol.. I still wanna fvck.. ya know? I know for a fact I make her come... and when she does.. she comes hard, so I don't know what the big deal is. Maybe shes gettin d1ck somewhere else? Or perhaps shes too tired.. because when we fvck its usually very late at night.. and she works. So.. I don't know what to fvckin think. Any advice?

Later pimps
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BuckwildNYC

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Are you getting her warmed up before sex? Girls need alot of foreplay to get aroused.
 

S1NN3R

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My gues would be that she doesn't enjoy sex with you that much, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
 

blinkwatt

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how long have you been a one-minute man? How often do you two fcuk?
 

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It sounds like your one-minute man syndrome has made her think less of you as a kingpin in bed. You need to remedy this fact by spending more time on foreplay with her and getting her highly aroused before you two fvck. And perhaps you should (instead of fvcking), you should let her go down on you to get you warmed up and off for the first time. Then once you've got that preliminary out of your system, you can show her the mad skills you claim to have.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nah, i get her mad wet.... she is the one who is the aggressor most of the time... she tells me to fvck her.... and we've only fvcked 7 times... we just started dating... and this is the girl i lost my v-card to... but when we first started to fvck... i made her come.. real hard. But ive noticed this was in the daytime, and lately we've been fvcking real late at night.. and she may be too tired to want more?

I really don't know... but im gonna get off topic real quick... are there desensitizing products to buy for a d1ck... so you dont come too quick?

Thanks and

Later
 

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We don't use condoms cuz shes on the pill.... there aren't any creams or 'rubs' or whatever to wipe on?

Later
 

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Yes, just wack off before you start, it helps... a lot! ;-)
 

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Are you rough with her? Maybe you're hurting her but she's too polite to tell you.

I had a similar problem. First few times I spent the night with her, we had sex once, then she'd avoid doing it again that night. Eventually she came clean and told me I was being too rough with her and was leaving her too sore to have sex again. She asked me to slow down a little in future and not go so deep, and problem sorted.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage

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LOL I still don't see what the problem is, bro you got it made.

This chick likes to satisfy her man and doesn't complain like alot of other chicks. As long as she doesn't denie having sex with you then continue having fun because she is enjoying it too. Chicks do not need to have orgasm every time, unlike ours their's are fickle.

DJD
 

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Have her give you head first until you ***. Then give her head until you can get it up again or she cums. Then have sex with her.

Practice wacking off until just before you *** and then stop and let it go back down. This will teach you the skill to hold it. I learned this from my buddy at http://Playersupreme.libsyn.com

Good luck to you.
 
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