"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mind_Body_Soul

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Vulpine said:
Here, here!

An ex bumped into me and confessed, "I don't really know you at all."
Ironically, I literally just got done talking to an ex who said I am the most intriguing man she's ever met to this day.:rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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STR8UP

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Vulpine said:
Here, here!

In poker, they call it "show low". I found that I have this sort of "filtration process" that weeds out flakes, scummers, and other unsavory superficial types.
For me it isn't necessarily a conscious effort to weed out certain women. It's has more to do with my personality.

I grew up with social anxiety issues that prevented my true personality from coming through. Now that I have gotten rid of those issues and managed to do something with my life I am still not the kind of person that lets it all hang out.

I mean, some things are more apparent than others, but I'm still a fairly reserved person. I have nice stuff and get a lot of respect for what I do but a person who doesn't see what I have or know what I do can only really judge me based upon what is in front of them, and like I said I don't go around with my d!ck swinging around for everyone to see. That's just who I am.
 
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