"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"I like bad boys"

Mind_Body_Soul

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Vulpine said:
Here, here!

An ex bumped into me and confessed, "I don't really know you at all."
Ironically, I literally just got done talking to an ex who said I am the most intriguing man she's ever met to this day.:rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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STR8UP

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Vulpine said:
Here, here!

In poker, they call it "show low". I found that I have this sort of "filtration process" that weeds out flakes, scummers, and other unsavory superficial types.
For me it isn't necessarily a conscious effort to weed out certain women. It's has more to do with my personality.

I grew up with social anxiety issues that prevented my true personality from coming through. Now that I have gotten rid of those issues and managed to do something with my life I am still not the kind of person that lets it all hang out.

I mean, some things are more apparent than others, but I'm still a fairly reserved person. I have nice stuff and get a lot of respect for what I do but a person who doesn't see what I have or know what I do can only really judge me based upon what is in front of them, and like I said I don't go around with my d!ck swinging around for everyone to see. That's just who I am.
 
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