"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"I like bad boys"

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Vulpine said:
Here, here!

An ex bumped into me and confessed, "I don't really know you at all."
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Ironically, I literally just got done talking to an ex who said I am the most intriguing man she's ever met to this day.:rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vulpine said:
Here, here!

In poker, they call it "show low". I found that I have this sort of "filtration process" that weeds out flakes, scummers, and other unsavory superficial types.
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For me it isn't necessarily a conscious effort to weed out certain women. It's has more to do with my personality.

I grew up with social anxiety issues that prevented my true personality from coming through. Now that I have gotten rid of those issues and managed to do something with my life I am still not the kind of person that lets it all hang out.

I mean, some things are more apparent than others, but I'm still a fairly reserved person. I have nice stuff and get a lot of respect for what I do but a person who doesn't see what I have or know what I do can only really judge me based upon what is in front of them, and like I said I don't go around with my d!ck swinging around for everyone to see. That's just who I am.
 
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