Vulpine said:
Here, here!
In poker, they call it "show low". I found that I have this sort of "filtration process" that weeds out flakes, scummers, and other unsavory superficial types.
For me it isn't necessarily a conscious effort to weed out certain women. It's has more to do with my personality.
I grew up with social anxiety issues that prevented my true personality from coming through. Now that I have gotten rid of those issues and managed to do something with my life I am still not the kind of person that lets it all hang out.
I mean, some things are more apparent than others, but I'm still a fairly reserved person. I have nice stuff and get a lot of respect for what I do but a person who doesn't see what I have or know what I do can only really judge me based upon what is in front of them, and like I said I don't go around with my d!ck swinging around for everyone to see. That's just who I am.