"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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YAMON dj

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I like a girl who has her choice of a HELLUVA lot of guys in my grade. Although i'm definetly one of the more good looking ones, and one of her friends i dont know if she likes me! haha well i'm sure this is a common problem.
Shes not going out with anyone currently, but she has in the past and dropped them in a month or so.
any way to hint that i like them, or find out if she likes me? without telling her "i really like u" of course.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by YAMON dj
without telling her "i really like u" of course.
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What holds you back from making sure you like her?

We should find out about and fix it as soon as possible. Unless we have eliminated the negative frame you are thinking with it´s really no good idea for you to make a serious move.

You are still 16, but afterward you will be a 'man' and make sure with words, kino and action that you like her and close the deal. ;)
 
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Sorry, you are maybe not 16, but it was your 16th post lol. Anyway, we will handle it....
 
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Originally posted by YAMON dj
I like a girl who has her choice of a HELLUVA lot of guys in my grade. Although i'm definetly one of the more good looking ones, and one of her friends i dont know if she likes me! haha well i'm sure this is a common problem.
Shes not going out with anyone currently, but she has in the past and dropped them in a month or so.
any way to hint that i like them, or find out if she likes me? without telling her "i really like u" of course.
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Well let your actions become your words-its not so much what say but what you do...telling her is one thing showing her is another-show her that you dig her and drop a little line that puts into words
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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