"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I like a girl who has her choice of a HELLUVA lot of guys in my grade. Although i'm definetly one of the more good looking ones, and one of her friends i dont know if she likes me! haha well i'm sure this is a common problem.
Shes not going out with anyone currently, but she has in the past and dropped them in a month or so.
any way to hint that i like them, or find out if she likes me? without telling her "i really like u" of course.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by YAMON dj
without telling her "i really like u" of course.
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What holds you back from making sure you like her?

We should find out about and fix it as soon as possible. Unless we have eliminated the negative frame you are thinking with it´s really no good idea for you to make a serious move.

You are still 16, but afterward you will be a 'man' and make sure with words, kino and action that you like her and close the deal. ;)
 
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Sorry, you are maybe not 16, but it was your 16th post lol. Anyway, we will handle it....
 
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Originally posted by YAMON dj
I like a girl who has her choice of a HELLUVA lot of guys in my grade. Although i'm definetly one of the more good looking ones, and one of her friends i dont know if she likes me! haha well i'm sure this is a common problem.
Shes not going out with anyone currently, but she has in the past and dropped them in a month or so.
any way to hint that i like them, or find out if she likes me? without telling her "i really like u" of course.
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Well let your actions become your words-its not so much what say but what you do...telling her is one thing showing her is another-show her that you dig her and drop a little line that puts into words
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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