"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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YAMON dj

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I like a girl who has her choice of a HELLUVA lot of guys in my grade. Although i'm definetly one of the more good looking ones, and one of her friends i dont know if she likes me! haha well i'm sure this is a common problem.
Shes not going out with anyone currently, but she has in the past and dropped them in a month or so.
any way to hint that i like them, or find out if she likes me? without telling her "i really like u" of course.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by YAMON dj
without telling her "i really like u" of course.
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What holds you back from making sure you like her?

We should find out about and fix it as soon as possible. Unless we have eliminated the negative frame you are thinking with it´s really no good idea for you to make a serious move.

You are still 16, but afterward you will be a 'man' and make sure with words, kino and action that you like her and close the deal. ;)
 
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Sorry, you are maybe not 16, but it was your 16th post lol. Anyway, we will handle it....
 
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Originally posted by YAMON dj
I like a girl who has her choice of a HELLUVA lot of guys in my grade. Although i'm definetly one of the more good looking ones, and one of her friends i dont know if she likes me! haha well i'm sure this is a common problem.
Shes not going out with anyone currently, but she has in the past and dropped them in a month or so.
any way to hint that i like them, or find out if she likes me? without telling her "i really like u" of course.
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Well let your actions become your words-its not so much what say but what you do...telling her is one thing showing her is another-show her that you dig her and drop a little line that puts into words
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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