"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I Learning And Need Kinda Default Pick Up Line To Use When I Cant Think Of

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SOMETHING STRAIGHT AWAY CAUSE I LEARNING AND STILL GET ABIT NERVOUS PLEASE HELP NO FLAME ME
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do Some Work and Read the Sticky's and the DJ Bible

Huck,

Read the second sticky at the top of the forum board. Then read the DJ Bible. This type of post is really an eyesore for new and experienced posters alike.

Moderator, please close or better yet delete this thread.
 

DJHoolahoop

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pick up line? How bout figure out a place that a chick wouldn't mind going to. Like a shopping mall or a cafe or something. Then just say that's where you're heading this weekend, invite her to come with if she doesn't mind going to the mall while you look for new jeans or check out new stores or something.

Or just say that you're going to check out a cafe in the city that you've always wanted to go to and are now making the attempt to go check out. Then say when you're going and that you'd like her to join you.

it's when you gotta do the "hey, i think you're cute. i really want to try dating you, but i'm not sure you want to date me so i'm going to ask you for permission." honestly it's just how people are in this world. They're bored, they're in for having fun and just enjoying life as opposed to being caught up in it's crap. So that's what it is, just saying "wanna drop everything and just go do something fun and "human"?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You will need more than "hi" to be good at this game. I live in a very friendly place, strangers always open doors and say "hello." You need some conversation to back up your "hi." I plan my conversation based on my observations. She might have a book or something that I can start a convo about. My problem is picking up when I don'r observe anything unique about my target; consequently, a direct approach is mandatory in such situations.

I think we all need bigger balls:

My goal is to gain the testicular fortitude to go up to a stranger and say, "Hi, what's your name." "I'm SM, I think your attractive,........ give me your telephone number so that we can go out."

I might do a bootcamp just using the above line....

"Make the ho say no."
 
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