"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Learning And Need Kinda Default Pick Up Line To Use When I Cant Think Of

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SOMETHING STRAIGHT AWAY CAUSE I LEARNING AND STILL GET ABIT NERVOUS PLEASE HELP NO FLAME ME
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do Some Work and Read the Sticky's and the DJ Bible

Huck,

Read the second sticky at the top of the forum board. Then read the DJ Bible. This type of post is really an eyesore for new and experienced posters alike.

Moderator, please close or better yet delete this thread.
 

DJHoolahoop

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pick up line? How bout figure out a place that a chick wouldn't mind going to. Like a shopping mall or a cafe or something. Then just say that's where you're heading this weekend, invite her to come with if she doesn't mind going to the mall while you look for new jeans or check out new stores or something.

Or just say that you're going to check out a cafe in the city that you've always wanted to go to and are now making the attempt to go check out. Then say when you're going and that you'd like her to join you.

it's when you gotta do the "hey, i think you're cute. i really want to try dating you, but i'm not sure you want to date me so i'm going to ask you for permission." honestly it's just how people are in this world. They're bored, they're in for having fun and just enjoying life as opposed to being caught up in it's crap. So that's what it is, just saying "wanna drop everything and just go do something fun and "human"?"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You will need more than "hi" to be good at this game. I live in a very friendly place, strangers always open doors and say "hello." You need some conversation to back up your "hi." I plan my conversation based on my observations. She might have a book or something that I can start a convo about. My problem is picking up when I don'r observe anything unique about my target; consequently, a direct approach is mandatory in such situations.

I think we all need bigger balls:

My goal is to gain the testicular fortitude to go up to a stranger and say, "Hi, what's your name." "I'm SM, I think your attractive,........ give me your telephone number so that we can go out."

I might do a bootcamp just using the above line....

"Make the ho say no."
 
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