"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I lack experience to deal with this situation

BannedGod

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it is prolly too late for anything to happen, but we never know... here it goes:

This chick (very hot body, ok face) has been after me for quite a long time, but she kinda bothers me and I decided to not pay too much attention to her until she starts getting bored, which she now did. So I asked her for some coffee, and we gonna go, and I know she is very interested in me and she prolly hopes for a relationship (if she doesnt, I could get one if I play my cards right) but I dont want this for ****. I'd just want to fool around with her, hit the sack a little, etc... not get a relationship. So what's some good way for that? (Just make her understand that I don't want commitment at all, just to have some fun, etc)

Sorry if it's not too clear, but it's late and I'm tired lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IPreyOnIt

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Wtf? Just play your cards right like you want a relationship. Hit it and split.

That's what I would do. What else you gonna do with a woman who wants a relationship? If she turns out to only want sex then...it's all good! But on the other hand if you ask her about it....and she DOESN'T want a relationship...you might miss out on some good puddy thrashing!

Then someone like me would have to come along and put the ax to it!
 
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Simple - if she opens her legs then do what pimps do but do not call her until 2 weeks later and say, "So, you bored? Should I come over? This will let her know the situation!
 
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