Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I lack experience to deal with this situation

BannedGod

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it is prolly too late for anything to happen, but we never know... here it goes:

This chick (very hot body, ok face) has been after me for quite a long time, but she kinda bothers me and I decided to not pay too much attention to her until she starts getting bored, which she now did. So I asked her for some coffee, and we gonna go, and I know she is very interested in me and she prolly hopes for a relationship (if she doesnt, I could get one if I play my cards right) but I dont want this for ****. I'd just want to fool around with her, hit the sack a little, etc... not get a relationship. So what's some good way for that? (Just make her understand that I don't want commitment at all, just to have some fun, etc)

Sorry if it's not too clear, but it's late and I'm tired lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IPreyOnIt

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Wtf? Just play your cards right like you want a relationship. Hit it and split.

That's what I would do. What else you gonna do with a woman who wants a relationship? If she turns out to only want sex then...it's all good! But on the other hand if you ask her about it....and she DOESN'T want a relationship...you might miss out on some good puddy thrashing!

Then someone like me would have to come along and put the ax to it!
 
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Simple - if she opens her legs then do what pimps do but do not call her until 2 weeks later and say, "So, you bored? Should I come over? This will let her know the situation!
 
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