"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I lack congruency

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I dress well and like a man of my age should. I'm cool, calm and collective, but I do not look like a 25 year old. I constantly have ppl tell me that I look 18. I never get confused for a high schooler, but I wonder if my man child face prevents me from playing with the older ladies. I get women of different ages checking me out, but I really want to play with the 25-35 crowd. I feel that a women in that age group can provide what I'm looking for.

I approached 3 40-somethings over the weekend and received 3 rejections, all were in relationships, all appeared to be amused and flattered, but that damn inner voice tells me that it is me.

What do you guys think about a young lookin' guy sarging older women.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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No nO no, i don't have a problem with how I dress, I'm a real clothes horse, a shoe *****, and receive plenty of compliments for my style. I just have a real youthful face.
 

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Oh i see
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've got the kid brother face too. I'm 28 and get mistaken for 21-23 ALL the time. At times where I am at nighclubs where its a 18+ to dance/21+ to drink college night, I always get hit on the 19-20 year olds.

Honestly, enjoy the youthful look. Look at guys like Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt, Jamie Foxx....Pitt and Depp are 40 and Jamie Foxx is 36..and women of all ages love these fellas. You shouldnt worry about looking older..rather..enjoy your youthful appearance...19-20 year olds are fun too!! haha..
 

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Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
You shouldnt worry about looking older..rather..enjoy your youthful appearance...19-20 year olds are fun too!! haha.. [/B]
especially knowing that in 10 years, you will be regretting this youthful appearance...
But if you really wanna hookup with milfs, give yourself a mature look by not trimming your beard neatly.
 

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SELF,

I'm going to be 30 very soon but most people think I look like I'm in my early 20's.

Facial hair solves the problem.

It's not bad too look young you can swing the young chicks:)
 

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i like milfs
 

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Excuse me ladies, but maybe you could settle an arguement. You see my mate reckons I look about twenty, but I think I look my real age, how old do you think I look?

answer: Fvck off sonny.

Just joking:D

Flash ID. Continue convo.

They know your real age, it's got it out of the way and has helped with an initial approach.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You'll realize it's not a problem when you're 50 and the 20 something hotties think you're 30 something!!
 
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