"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I lack congruency

SELF-MASTERY

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I dress well and like a man of my age should. I'm cool, calm and collective, but I do not look like a 25 year old. I constantly have ppl tell me that I look 18. I never get confused for a high schooler, but I wonder if my man child face prevents me from playing with the older ladies. I get women of different ages checking me out, but I really want to play with the 25-35 crowd. I feel that a women in that age group can provide what I'm looking for.

I approached 3 40-somethings over the weekend and received 3 rejections, all were in relationships, all appeared to be amused and flattered, but that damn inner voice tells me that it is me.

What do you guys think about a young lookin' guy sarging older women.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SELF-MASTERY

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No nO no, i don't have a problem with how I dress, I'm a real clothes horse, a shoe *****, and receive plenty of compliments for my style. I just have a real youthful face.
 

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Oh i see
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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I've got the kid brother face too. I'm 28 and get mistaken for 21-23 ALL the time. At times where I am at nighclubs where its a 18+ to dance/21+ to drink college night, I always get hit on the 19-20 year olds.

Honestly, enjoy the youthful look. Look at guys like Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt, Jamie Foxx....Pitt and Depp are 40 and Jamie Foxx is 36..and women of all ages love these fellas. You shouldnt worry about looking older..rather..enjoy your youthful appearance...19-20 year olds are fun too!! haha..
 

smooth_as_silk

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Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
You shouldnt worry about looking older..rather..enjoy your youthful appearance...19-20 year olds are fun too!! haha.. [/B]
especially knowing that in 10 years, you will be regretting this youthful appearance...
But if you really wanna hookup with milfs, give yourself a mature look by not trimming your beard neatly.
 

The_411

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SELF,

I'm going to be 30 very soon but most people think I look like I'm in my early 20's.

Facial hair solves the problem.

It's not bad too look young you can swing the young chicks:)
 

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i like milfs
 

Alpine

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Excuse me ladies, but maybe you could settle an arguement. You see my mate reckons I look about twenty, but I think I look my real age, how old do you think I look?

answer: Fvck off sonny.

Just joking:D

Flash ID. Continue convo.

They know your real age, it's got it out of the way and has helped with an initial approach.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Good_ol_boy

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You'll realize it's not a problem when you're 50 and the 20 something hotties think you're 30 something!!
 
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