"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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schttrj

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Many of you guys face the problem of being LJBF'ed. I never had the problem. But there is a downside also. I really think I turn off their trust switch since I flirt too soon. This makes them think I am a player. You all get me? That's why, I can't even kino escalate them since I need to gain their trust first of all.

Ok, before you guys tell me that it is good, let me tell you I lost some quality chicks just because they couldn't trust me. They know I am genuine and they love to hang out with me but at the back of their mind, I know they are insecure of me being with other ladies and the ones who actually look for a relationship, don't want to take it far with me but only want to see me as the uncatchable guy they are attracted to. LOL

Flirting examples:

"you are not my kind!" with a sly smile through eyes.

"maybe i can play your intrument better than anyone else can do" with a naughty smile again.... you get me?

They get naughty and say that I am a big flirt.

Another part is am I not escalating properly? Are they looking for me to take them on a ride. Let me know what you think.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Daddy The Pimp

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man no need for response on this one . You answered your own question .

You have to flirt all the time , but saying I CAN PLAY YOUR INSTRUMENT BETTER THAN ANYONE ? Thats like a line that you read on internet .

I wouldnt recommand you doing it .

Try to be interesting , attractive , funny , challenge , confident guy . Show them your personality , display them higher value . Continue flirting , but reduce it in some amount .

Demonstrate your high value . I think you know how to do these things .

And youll see when its time to escalate . Good that they dont consider you their girlfriend .
 
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