"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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schttrj

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Many of you guys face the problem of being LJBF'ed. I never had the problem. But there is a downside also. I really think I turn off their trust switch since I flirt too soon. This makes them think I am a player. You all get me? That's why, I can't even kino escalate them since I need to gain their trust first of all.

Ok, before you guys tell me that it is good, let me tell you I lost some quality chicks just because they couldn't trust me. They know I am genuine and they love to hang out with me but at the back of their mind, I know they are insecure of me being with other ladies and the ones who actually look for a relationship, don't want to take it far with me but only want to see me as the uncatchable guy they are attracted to. LOL

Flirting examples:

"you are not my kind!" with a sly smile through eyes.

"maybe i can play your intrument better than anyone else can do" with a naughty smile again.... you get me?

They get naughty and say that I am a big flirt.

Another part is am I not escalating properly? Are they looking for me to take them on a ride. Let me know what you think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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man no need for response on this one . You answered your own question .

You have to flirt all the time , but saying I CAN PLAY YOUR INSTRUMENT BETTER THAN ANYONE ? Thats like a line that you read on internet .

I wouldnt recommand you doing it .

Try to be interesting , attractive , funny , challenge , confident guy . Show them your personality , display them higher value . Continue flirting , but reduce it in some amount .

Demonstrate your high value . I think you know how to do these things .

And youll see when its time to escalate . Good that they dont consider you their girlfriend .
 
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