"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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schttrj

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Many of you guys face the problem of being LJBF'ed. I never had the problem. But there is a downside also. I really think I turn off their trust switch since I flirt too soon. This makes them think I am a player. You all get me? That's why, I can't even kino escalate them since I need to gain their trust first of all.

Ok, before you guys tell me that it is good, let me tell you I lost some quality chicks just because they couldn't trust me. They know I am genuine and they love to hang out with me but at the back of their mind, I know they are insecure of me being with other ladies and the ones who actually look for a relationship, don't want to take it far with me but only want to see me as the uncatchable guy they are attracted to. LOL

Flirting examples:

"you are not my kind!" with a sly smile through eyes.

"maybe i can play your intrument better than anyone else can do" with a naughty smile again.... you get me?

They get naughty and say that I am a big flirt.

Another part is am I not escalating properly? Are they looking for me to take them on a ride. Let me know what you think.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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man no need for response on this one . You answered your own question .

You have to flirt all the time , but saying I CAN PLAY YOUR INSTRUMENT BETTER THAN ANYONE ? Thats like a line that you read on internet .

I wouldnt recommand you doing it .

Try to be interesting , attractive , funny , challenge , confident guy . Show them your personality , display them higher value . Continue flirting , but reduce it in some amount .

Demonstrate your high value . I think you know how to do these things .

And youll see when its time to escalate . Good that they dont consider you their girlfriend .
 
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