girlsarecrazy
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What would you do in my situation?? HELP!
Status of our relationship:
Me in AFC mode:
*2 Months being in a serious official Boyfriend/Girlfriend relationship. Hung out and craved each other everyday. We fvcked, had lots of dates, and both were extremely happy.
*She went away for 10 days, called me crying about how much she misses me, bought me someone, wrote me a love letter, but also realized how much fun it felt to be free and single. She asked for space to see what she wanted. I was surprised, shocked, and felt heartbroken. She eventually called it off but said her feelings haven't changed and I was LJBF'd.
Me in DJ mode:
*She continued to call me all the time but never asked to hang out. After her non-stop thinking about me and calling me. I started to ignore and ignore and end convo's short until she begged for me. I was like why do you call me? Why don't we hang out and talk. I acted completely different, hard to get, not giving attention, etc. Then her IL sky rocketed.
*Being just friends, we started hanging out again over spring break almost everyday, Then one night I said, "We've been hanging out a lot don't you ever wonder what would happend if we started fooling around even just being friends. It's hard to be friends and not fool around after we've already done stuff. When i'm next to you like this, I feel like i wanna rock your world" She told me that's something she would have to think about.
*2 days later on a friday night. We hang out to watch movies. 2 hours of just lying there and i read her body language. She def. wanted something but didn't want to make a move. Towards the end of the night, I whispered in her ear, "Did you think about what i said the other day?" She said "Yea!" and attacked me and we crazy sex.
*For the past 2 months i've been acting different. Not taking any of her ****. And it's been driving her nuts. We've had our ups and downs. Then I went away to 6 days. She left me about 5 messages saying how much she misses me and she can't believe how bad she's feeling without me. She said in a text message when i was away, "I can't stop thinking about you. I can't believe I am missing you this much. We really fit.. I guess you needed 2 go away for a little for me to see it."
*I come back, we had an awesome time making up. Hanging out, kissing, cuddling, etc. It wasn't the time and place for sex though and we act exactly like when we were boyfriend/girlfriend. But we aren't. Last time me and her had an "US" talk before the trip, we agreed to a less serious casual relationship without titles.
Now I'm not sure of the status of our relationship. I seen major improvements. But i'm not aware if she wants to go back to having titles. Little things like how she can tell people that she's single, have her myspace status to Single and how I am not informed about her plans as much. These worry me because she hasn't spilled her feelings to me recently and I don't know what she wants any more as far as our relationship. She doesn't really worry because i'm not as vulnerable as her. She's hit on all the time. I'm not. So she doesn't worry about losing me.
I ask this, How can i secure this girl to what I want.
I want an official relationship that is worry free.
A couple of times in the past when we've talked about us. She'll tell me she just doesn't want a boyfriend, and if that's what you want me to be then i'm not the girl for you.
But that was a long time ago.
Assess my situation DJ's!
This girl is definetly a keeper! She's HB9.0, taller, tan, skinny, all the guys think i'm the luckiest man alive, etc.
Status of our relationship:
Me in AFC mode:
*2 Months being in a serious official Boyfriend/Girlfriend relationship. Hung out and craved each other everyday. We fvcked, had lots of dates, and both were extremely happy.
*She went away for 10 days, called me crying about how much she misses me, bought me someone, wrote me a love letter, but also realized how much fun it felt to be free and single. She asked for space to see what she wanted. I was surprised, shocked, and felt heartbroken. She eventually called it off but said her feelings haven't changed and I was LJBF'd.
Me in DJ mode:
*She continued to call me all the time but never asked to hang out. After her non-stop thinking about me and calling me. I started to ignore and ignore and end convo's short until she begged for me. I was like why do you call me? Why don't we hang out and talk. I acted completely different, hard to get, not giving attention, etc. Then her IL sky rocketed.
*Being just friends, we started hanging out again over spring break almost everyday, Then one night I said, "We've been hanging out a lot don't you ever wonder what would happend if we started fooling around even just being friends. It's hard to be friends and not fool around after we've already done stuff. When i'm next to you like this, I feel like i wanna rock your world" She told me that's something she would have to think about.
*2 days later on a friday night. We hang out to watch movies. 2 hours of just lying there and i read her body language. She def. wanted something but didn't want to make a move. Towards the end of the night, I whispered in her ear, "Did you think about what i said the other day?" She said "Yea!" and attacked me and we crazy sex.
*For the past 2 months i've been acting different. Not taking any of her ****. And it's been driving her nuts. We've had our ups and downs. Then I went away to 6 days. She left me about 5 messages saying how much she misses me and she can't believe how bad she's feeling without me. She said in a text message when i was away, "I can't stop thinking about you. I can't believe I am missing you this much. We really fit.. I guess you needed 2 go away for a little for me to see it."
*I come back, we had an awesome time making up. Hanging out, kissing, cuddling, etc. It wasn't the time and place for sex though and we act exactly like when we were boyfriend/girlfriend. But we aren't. Last time me and her had an "US" talk before the trip, we agreed to a less serious casual relationship without titles.
Now I'm not sure of the status of our relationship. I seen major improvements. But i'm not aware if she wants to go back to having titles. Little things like how she can tell people that she's single, have her myspace status to Single and how I am not informed about her plans as much. These worry me because she hasn't spilled her feelings to me recently and I don't know what she wants any more as far as our relationship. She doesn't really worry because i'm not as vulnerable as her. She's hit on all the time. I'm not. So she doesn't worry about losing me.
I ask this, How can i secure this girl to what I want.
I want an official relationship that is worry free.
A couple of times in the past when we've talked about us. She'll tell me she just doesn't want a boyfriend, and if that's what you want me to be then i'm not the girl for you.
But that was a long time ago.
Assess my situation DJ's!
This girl is definetly a keeper! She's HB9.0, taller, tan, skinny, all the guys think i'm the luckiest man alive, etc.
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