"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i know this has been done but: masturbation?

garruk

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i know masturbation threads have been done before but im hoping to get a little deeper into the topic.

in my experience, masturbation makes me less horny and raises my standards as i no longer think of women as 1's and 0's and start rating them on a more complex scale (0-10).

is this higher standards thing good or bad in your opinion?
why?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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allbeef

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Higher standards are good. I would not worry about it. It is a personal thing. Masturbation is different for everyone. Take my case as an example. 90% of the time I masturbate is when I am in the car. For some reason that just turns me on. I don't think too much about it. Everyone is different.
 

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allbeef said:
Higher standards are good. I would not worry about it. It is a personal thing. Masturbation is different for everyone. Take my case as an example. 90% of the time I masturbate is when I am in the car. For some reason that just turns me on. I don't think too much about it. Everyone is different.

WTF...That's all I can say. WTF
 

Mike32ct

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garruk said:
i know masturbation threads have been done before but im hoping to get a little deeper into the topic.

in my experience, masturbation makes me less horny and raises my standards as i no longer think of women as 1's and 0's and start rating them on a more complex scale (0-10).

is this higher standards thing good or bad in your opinion?
why?
I used to be a big fan of the no masturbation thing. It had a lot of benefits, but I recently found that it had one drawback.

After a while, you will be tempted to fook some warpig. Fortunately, I rubbed one out and quickly came (pun intended) to my senses lol.

I think it's all about balance. Yes you should have standards.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mike32ct said:
I used to be a big fan of the no masturbation thing. It had a lot of benefits, but I recently found that it had one drawback.

After a while, you will be tempted to fook some warpig. Fortunately, I rubbed one out and quickly came (pun intended) to my senses lol.

I think it's all about balance. Yes you should have standards.
Yes, it depends on what stage you are at.

If you are just starting out and just want to get the "training" in, then not masturbating will compel you to get relief from other sources than your hand.

Whereas if you have played the field and realized that there is more to girls than just s*x (or so I've heard), then MB'ing occasionally will help to make sure you don't do something you might regret later.
 
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