Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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i know this has been done but: masturbation?

garruk

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i know masturbation threads have been done before but im hoping to get a little deeper into the topic.

in my experience, masturbation makes me less horny and raises my standards as i no longer think of women as 1's and 0's and start rating them on a more complex scale (0-10).

is this higher standards thing good or bad in your opinion?
why?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Higher standards are good. I would not worry about it. It is a personal thing. Masturbation is different for everyone. Take my case as an example. 90% of the time I masturbate is when I am in the car. For some reason that just turns me on. I don't think too much about it. Everyone is different.
 

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allbeef said:
Higher standards are good. I would not worry about it. It is a personal thing. Masturbation is different for everyone. Take my case as an example. 90% of the time I masturbate is when I am in the car. For some reason that just turns me on. I don't think too much about it. Everyone is different.

WTF...That's all I can say. WTF
 

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garruk said:
i know masturbation threads have been done before but im hoping to get a little deeper into the topic.

in my experience, masturbation makes me less horny and raises my standards as i no longer think of women as 1's and 0's and start rating them on a more complex scale (0-10).

is this higher standards thing good or bad in your opinion?
why?
I used to be a big fan of the no masturbation thing. It had a lot of benefits, but I recently found that it had one drawback.

After a while, you will be tempted to fook some warpig. Fortunately, I rubbed one out and quickly came (pun intended) to my senses lol.

I think it's all about balance. Yes you should have standards.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mike32ct said:
I used to be a big fan of the no masturbation thing. It had a lot of benefits, but I recently found that it had one drawback.

After a while, you will be tempted to fook some warpig. Fortunately, I rubbed one out and quickly came (pun intended) to my senses lol.

I think it's all about balance. Yes you should have standards.
Yes, it depends on what stage you are at.

If you are just starting out and just want to get the "training" in, then not masturbating will compel you to get relief from other sources than your hand.

Whereas if you have played the field and realized that there is more to girls than just s*x (or so I've heard), then MB'ing occasionally will help to make sure you don't do something you might regret later.
 
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