"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know nothing.. the "first's"- need advice -

Pozitron

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Do I have a gf? Yes. To get a picture of the lvl we're at.. holding hands and kissing ( on the lips but normal) maybe when we meet, once like when we hand out and when we say goodbye.

My problem is that I don't know how to advance things. As some of you know.. I never did this before. I have 0 experience with what I wanna do and I never reached this far till now.

What I'm saying is that moves don't come natural..and I'm blaming myself but damn.. maybe it's just natural. THink about it.. nothing is natural if you never did it before. It's like I wanna drive and be really good at it but now it's the first time I started the engine and till now I only got into cars on the pasanger seat.

So moves don't come natural. I am thinking too much sometimes. I wonder at times what to say next. I wanna make it exciting.. I wanna make this to be natural for me but I don't know how.

WHat do you think guys?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LearningSlowly

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One time (before all this) I advanced a relationship by one base on every date. We made out first date, felt her up two days later, fingered her the next day.

Decide on the next thing you want to go for, determine logistics, then just do it.

If you want to get a girl hot, you need to touch her all over her body. Gently at first, but increase pressure. Sometimes you can jump up a level to a higher pressure, this might mean going from making out and jumping up a level by biting her lip gently and grabbing her a$s. Exhale after you do it.

When I got my first girlfriend I practiced making out with my hand a lot.

Go get to work bro.
 
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