"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I know nothing.. the "first's"- need advice -

Pozitron

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Do I have a gf? Yes. To get a picture of the lvl we're at.. holding hands and kissing ( on the lips but normal) maybe when we meet, once like when we hand out and when we say goodbye.

My problem is that I don't know how to advance things. As some of you know.. I never did this before. I have 0 experience with what I wanna do and I never reached this far till now.

What I'm saying is that moves don't come natural..and I'm blaming myself but damn.. maybe it's just natural. THink about it.. nothing is natural if you never did it before. It's like I wanna drive and be really good at it but now it's the first time I started the engine and till now I only got into cars on the pasanger seat.

So moves don't come natural. I am thinking too much sometimes. I wonder at times what to say next. I wanna make it exciting.. I wanna make this to be natural for me but I don't know how.

WHat do you think guys?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LearningSlowly

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One time (before all this) I advanced a relationship by one base on every date. We made out first date, felt her up two days later, fingered her the next day.

Decide on the next thing you want to go for, determine logistics, then just do it.

If you want to get a girl hot, you need to touch her all over her body. Gently at first, but increase pressure. Sometimes you can jump up a level to a higher pressure, this might mean going from making out and jumping up a level by biting her lip gently and grabbing her a$s. Exhale after you do it.

When I got my first girlfriend I practiced making out with my hand a lot.

Go get to work bro.
 
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