"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know nothing.. the "first's"- need advice -

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Pozitron

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Do I have a gf? Yes. To get a picture of the lvl we're at.. holding hands and kissing ( on the lips but normal) maybe when we meet, once like when we hand out and when we say goodbye.

My problem is that I don't know how to advance things. As some of you know.. I never did this before. I have 0 experience with what I wanna do and I never reached this far till now.

What I'm saying is that moves don't come natural..and I'm blaming myself but damn.. maybe it's just natural. THink about it.. nothing is natural if you never did it before. It's like I wanna drive and be really good at it but now it's the first time I started the engine and till now I only got into cars on the pasanger seat.

So moves don't come natural. I am thinking too much sometimes. I wonder at times what to say next. I wanna make it exciting.. I wanna make this to be natural for me but I don't know how.

WHat do you think guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LearningSlowly

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One time (before all this) I advanced a relationship by one base on every date. We made out first date, felt her up two days later, fingered her the next day.

Decide on the next thing you want to go for, determine logistics, then just do it.

If you want to get a girl hot, you need to touch her all over her body. Gently at first, but increase pressure. Sometimes you can jump up a level to a higher pressure, this might mean going from making out and jumping up a level by biting her lip gently and grabbing her a$s. Exhale after you do it.

When I got my first girlfriend I practiced making out with my hand a lot.

Go get to work bro.
 
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