Is it ok to have text conversations with girls in high school? you're guaranteed to see the girl again in school so it's not really necessary to text only to set up a day two. This thought came in my head because I was texting a girl that I've been talking to recently last night until I fell asleep and couldn't respond to her message (I'm a senior in high school). I thought about responding when I woke up but then I decided that that probably come off as too needy.