Is it ok to have text conversations with girls in high school? you're guaranteed to see the girl again in school so it's not really necessary to text only to set up a day two. This thought came in my head because I was texting a girl that I've been talking to recently last night until I fell asleep and couldn't respond to her message (I'm a senior in high school). I thought about responding when I woke up but then I decided that that probably come off as too needy.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I know having long text conversations is bad, but what about in high school?
- Thread starter justin11
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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all the rules of the normal world don't apply to high school.
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I hope this is irony. For the most part, the same set of rules that apply to 20 year olds in college apply to 17 year olds in high school. The only differences would be logistical issues, as in where to have sex, etc. It is the same old game otherwise.sylvester the cat said: