Is it ok to have text conversations with girls in high school? you're guaranteed to see the girl again in school so it's not really necessary to text only to set up a day two. This thought came in my head because I was texting a girl that I've been talking to recently last night until I fell asleep and couldn't respond to her message (I'm a senior in high school). I thought about responding when I woke up but then I decided that that probably come off as too needy.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I know having long text conversations is bad, but what about in high school?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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all the rules of the normal world don't apply to high school.
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I hope this is irony. For the most part, the same set of rules that apply to 20 year olds in college apply to 17 year olds in high school. The only differences would be logistical issues, as in where to have sex, etc. It is the same old game otherwise.sylvester the cat said: