"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I kissed her!

Berlex

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Thanks to this site I was able to ask a girl out. At the end of our first date I kissed her! But now what? Is she considered my girlfriend now?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Best friends? NAY

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lol good job bro. Don't worry about what she is "considered"
DON'T bring it up, it doesn't matter. It doesn't change anything.
Remeber don't get clingy.
 
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Originally posted by Berlex
Thanks to this site I was able to ask a girl out. At the end of our first date I kissed her! But now what? Is she considered my girlfriend now?
WOW ur first date and kiss i presume? congrats man ur an improved dj! im so proud of u.
 

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You're doing good. We all start small.

I don't think she is your GF, unless she is really prude, then she might consider it that way.

Just keep on learning, and everything.

You're doing great.
 

Berlex

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Thanks guys! I wish I had found this site sooner.

Berlex
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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goodjob... but are you 67?
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
I don't think she is your GF, unless she is really prude, then she might consider it that way.

I had one that considered herself my girlfriend (exclusive) after I agreed to go out with her.. Chick are crazy, and they are all different. It is impossible to say in any case, unless she brings up the topic. Just go out with her a few more times, do your stuff and wait for her to bring it up or start referring to you as a bf...
 

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Originally posted by Berlex
Is she considered my girlfriend now?
Oh man... you got a lot more to read :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yeah I have a lot to learn...but it was great, after I kissed her she had a smile on her face for the rest of the night. I have yet to read the whole DJ bible.
 

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"I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a girl that would be mad if she heard me say that"
- Some great DJ


Remember that =)
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
"I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a girl that would be mad if she heard me say that"
- Some great DJ


Remember that =)
I'll keep that in mind, thenewguy.
 

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Ha, my first kiss story can beat anyone else's.

I made out with a chick who only days before I had gotten head from her best friend.

I rode that gravy train for two months before they found out. ;)
 
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