"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I kissed her!

Berlex

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Thanks to this site I was able to ask a girl out. At the end of our first date I kissed her! But now what? Is she considered my girlfriend now?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best friends? NAY

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lol good job bro. Don't worry about what she is "considered"
DON'T bring it up, it doesn't matter. It doesn't change anything.
Remeber don't get clingy.
 
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Originally posted by Berlex
Thanks to this site I was able to ask a girl out. At the end of our first date I kissed her! But now what? Is she considered my girlfriend now?
WOW ur first date and kiss i presume? congrats man ur an improved dj! im so proud of u.
 

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You're doing good. We all start small.

I don't think she is your GF, unless she is really prude, then she might consider it that way.

Just keep on learning, and everything.

You're doing great.
 

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Thanks guys! I wish I had found this site sooner.

Berlex
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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goodjob... but are you 67?
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
I don't think she is your GF, unless she is really prude, then she might consider it that way.

I had one that considered herself my girlfriend (exclusive) after I agreed to go out with her.. Chick are crazy, and they are all different. It is impossible to say in any case, unless she brings up the topic. Just go out with her a few more times, do your stuff and wait for her to bring it up or start referring to you as a bf...
 

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Originally posted by Berlex
Is she considered my girlfriend now?
Oh man... you got a lot more to read :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yeah I have a lot to learn...but it was great, after I kissed her she had a smile on her face for the rest of the night. I have yet to read the whole DJ bible.
 

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"I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a girl that would be mad if she heard me say that"
- Some great DJ


Remember that =)
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
"I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a girl that would be mad if she heard me say that"
- Some great DJ


Remember that =)
I'll keep that in mind, thenewguy.
 

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Ha, my first kiss story can beat anyone else's.

I made out with a chick who only days before I had gotten head from her best friend.

I rode that gravy train for two months before they found out. ;)
 
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