"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I KISS CLOSED! ...and Nick's new reason for being here

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what a joke
Don't buy into this "If you want to keep a chick, you have to give her sex." Rubbish.
because your seeing some immature headcases who have some hangups with sex does not make the general chick population. ( oh and btw if shes not getting pounded behind your back now, which is most likely, somebody else will soon enough)
I don't know what your take on things is, but there are plenty of ways to pleasure a girl other than penetration,
why? whats the point? the only thing i can think why is because of some lame religous ideas you have.
what are you trying to find a loophole to let you into heaven? I got news for you mate, oral sex.. etc is sex, dont fool yourself.
and quite frankly, the general impression seems to be that those ways are preferred, anyway.
what are you stoned? with that statement no wonder your so mislead.
chicks prefer foreplay and not the actual act of having a hard c@ck to fully satisfy them?, tell me did you have a straight face typing that?

to be honest, i find it embarrasing telling a 24 year old things he should have known at 16
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MetalFortress

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Nick, I know this is old, but why the heck are you considering chicks your GF when neither of you have even had any talk of commitment?? What if she "cheated" on you? Cause if some chick I was dating acted like I cheated on her cuz I am dating other chicks too, I'd look at her like she was nuts.
 

Nicholas Hill

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If it makes you feel any better, MetalFortress, I don't do that any more!
 

Nicholas Hill

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Nope. I'm happily married, and have a 2 year old daughter, with another baby on the way!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cesare Cardinali said:
It is very hard to keep women when you are not f*cking them. I would say it is impossible, quite frankly. You can have all the game in the world, but they will walk away unless they are getting plowed regularly.
Just because you're banging a chick does not mean you'll keep her.

that's an old way of thinking. if a chick like sex then its just a fun thing to do. she doesn't have to be forming emotional connections while having sex with you.

Which is why Sex isn't as important as an emotional connection. Sorry but 80 year olds aren't shagging like rabbits.

still though doing anything sexual with a woman will give her the incentive to form an emotional attachment. Making out, heavy petting, having her give you some head or even sleeping together naked are all forms of intimacy.
 
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