"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I keep losing my Frame and making the same mistake over and over!

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I know I need to work on myself because of it! However, it's my personality and it's sooo hard to change. My problem is that if I feel not respected, played with, or insulted in any way I get furious, which means I need to work on my self esteem.

I cannot help but calling a girl out on her **** because it's who I am. They cannot take it and I keep effing up.

So basically, i've been living with internal criticism of myself and my ways since Saturday night. Man oh man I can't wait to get to a week so these feelings will start to fade.

Please provide insight or positive criticism that can help me work on frame, self esteem.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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speed dawg

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Need you to give an example of how you do this.
 
Stallionstud

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I also have this issue. If a girl goes low interest on me, I only ever lose her. I don’t have a solution. Wish I did.
 
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A little boy gets furious easily, even more so for babies, just take away their food or toys and they'll throw a tantrum.

It's because these little boys has neither the experience nor knowledge but it gets better as they grow up.

So grow ur experience and knowledge, it's all attainable. Nothing special actually, everyone goes through it.
 
wifehunter

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It good that you recognize it. I usually avoid situations where I would 'lose it'.

The trick is 'awareness'. That moment when the situation becomes intolerable and while it's still avoidable. LEAVE.

But, at the end of the day, it boils down to self-control. Which is really only given by the Lord. God help you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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