“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I keep losing my Frame and making the same mistake over and over!

SanDog11

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I know I need to work on myself because of it! However, it's my personality and it's sooo hard to change. My problem is that if I feel not respected, played with, or insulted in any way I get furious, which means I need to work on my self esteem.

I cannot help but calling a girl out on her **** because it's who I am. They cannot take it and I keep effing up.

So basically, i've been living with internal criticism of myself and my ways since Saturday night. Man oh man I can't wait to get to a week so these feelings will start to fade.

Please provide insight or positive criticism that can help me work on frame, self esteem.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Need you to give an example of how you do this.
 

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I also have this issue. If a girl goes low interest on me, I only ever lose her. I don’t have a solution. Wish I did.
 

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A little boy gets furious easily, even more so for babies, just take away their food or toys and they'll throw a tantrum.

It's because these little boys has neither the experience nor knowledge but it gets better as they grow up.

So grow ur experience and knowledge, it's all attainable. Nothing special actually, everyone goes through it.
 

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It good that you recognize it. I usually avoid situations where I would 'lose it'.

The trick is 'awareness'. That moment when the situation becomes intolerable and while it's still avoidable. LEAVE.

But, at the end of the day, it boils down to self-control. Which is really only given by the Lord. God help you.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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