"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just want to thank the red pill community..

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I've spent a lot of time in strip clubs the past 20yrs, known many of those girls, even dated a few, and had friends date strippers as well. I really don't see much difference between a girl that strips and one that doesn't. By what I've read, the ones that think there is a huge difference don't have much experience. ;-)
Finally someone else agrees with me on this. I only like about 1 in 50 strippers, but the ones I've liked, I've found that if you give them a paid night off ($200-$600 depending on hot they are, how desperate you are, how much effort they have to put in (hair, nails, makeup, dress, etc), what night of the week it is, and how popular the girl/venue), have them put a dress on, and take them outside the club, they usually transform into a sweetheart who was just putting on an act (an act she learned from experience will extract the most profit from men) and who can easily be seduced. Often they are actually sexually frustrated because they can't meet a man who gets it and who has testosterone. I found one who had never had an orgasm and it only took me about 20 minutes alone with her. No girl ever embraced me the way she did. Pay them in advance and remind them you won't pay them every time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The average person makes $30,000 per year..
Averages are skewed by a few very high earners. $30k yr is $15 an hour. That's not average near me. Factory jobs here start at close to minimum wage. And these are the few people lucky enough to have a job. I know a lot of people on a disability or retirement pension of $600 a month.
 

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Finally someone else agrees with me on this. I only like about 1 in 50 strippers, but the ones I've liked, I've found that if you give them a paid night off ($200-$600 depending on hot they are, how desperate you are, how much effort they have to put in (hair, nails, makeup, dress, etc), what night of the week it is, and how popular the girl/venue), have them put a dress on, and take them outside the club, they usually transform into a sweetheart who was just putting on an act (an act she learned from experience will extract the most profit from men) and who can easily be seduced. Often they are actually sexually frustrated because they can't meet a man who gets it and who has testosterone. I found one who had never had an orgasm and it only took me about 20 minutes alone with her. No girl ever embraced me the way she did. Pay them in advance and remind them you won't pay them every time.
So you paid to go on dates?
I'll try that too :)
 

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So you paid to go on dates?
I'll try that too :)
Yes, the man is expected to pay for the date. Especially with girls he met yesterday at a strip club, who are 30 years his junior, who will spend money to get their hair, makeup and nails done, and pose for photos that he can own. Indeed, you should try that one too (minus smiley faces).

Wait, you expect girls to pay for dates? I've only got my girls to pay for 1 in 5 dates.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes, the man is expected to pay for the date. Especially with girls he met yesterday at a strip club, who are 30 years his junior, who will spend money to get their hair, makeup and nails done, and pose for photos that he can own. Indeed, you should try that one too (minus smiley faces).

Wait, you expect girls to pay for dates? I've only got my girls to pay for 1 in 5 dates.
Paying for things on a date is one thing. Hiring a girl to go out on a date with you is another thing which is what you're doing.
 

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Paying for things on a date is one thing. Hiring a girl to go out on a date with you is another thing which is what you're doing.
Does a bar manager hire a bartender?

Does a photographer hire a model?

It's not a date, it's a job. I hire models to photograph. I'm lucky the IRS isn't a jealous, hard up middle aged man like you are, you clown.

Hiring a girl for a legitimate job is not buying sex, especially when most don't even have sex.

Funny how gorgeous women throw themselves at me everywhere I go and you insist I must have to pay for sex.

Have you even had one date this year?
 

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Does a bar manager hire a bartender?

Does a photographer hire a model?

It's not a date, it's a job. I hire models to photograph. I'm lucky the IRS isn't a jealous, hard up middle aged man like you are, you clown.

Hiring a girl for a legitimate job is not buying sex, especially when most don't even have sex.

Funny how gorgeous women throw themselves at me everywhere I go and you insist I must have to pay for sex.

Have you even had one date this year?
You're confused. I never mentioned anything about hiring a girl for a job. I said "hiring a girl to go out on a date with you".
 
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