Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I just thougth of the best place to do kino... your thoughts?

Shivastorm_88

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It's been right in front of me all these years. The answer is! The gym!

It's so simple. Assuming you bring a girl to workout with you and she barely ever workouts, you can show her some exercise, and like 99% of the noobs, she will do them wrong so just fix her posture and kino away! Any thoughts on this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Obsidian

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dance classes are the best place to do kino

but not many people go to those
 

everywomanshero

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Not to discourage you, but I sense you are overanalyzing. I never try to major in the minors. I do what gets me the most results fast.

Therefore, I don't recommend taking girls to the gym. By all means flirt with women there, but the best place to take a day 2 is to your apartment for sex. It is many times less likely you can pull a lay in the gym environment, therefore it is very ineffecient.
 

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"dance classes" wow that sounds interesting. I hear theres a shortage of males too :p
 

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I took ballroom dancing for a number of years... it is an amazing place to do meet women, an impressive skill to have, and actually quite a bit of fun.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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vanrijnr1

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Try the Latin scene. Ballroom dancing is easier in some ways, but it's rather stiff, not so natural to me. Go to the local Latin club and take salsa classes for a year. You'll never have a shortage of women and more than that you will have confidence like never before.
 

NickBe

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The GYM is good also because the women are exercising which means they are sweating, not wearing makeup and most likely not dressed like they would like. This make them feel a little insecure and gives you a slight edge.
 

L777

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Yea its good but why take emto the gym? If they like you enough to be cool with you doing it there then they'll be cool with you doing it at home or wherever.....girls do actually like this stuff you know, its not something you have to sneak in without her realising it!!
 

Bonhomme

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I took some swing dancing classes, and there were more men than women. And a fair % were couples, at that. Go figure.
 
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