"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I just thougth of the best place to do kino... your thoughts?

Shivastorm_88

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It's been right in front of me all these years. The answer is! The gym!

It's so simple. Assuming you bring a girl to workout with you and she barely ever workouts, you can show her some exercise, and like 99% of the noobs, she will do them wrong so just fix her posture and kino away! Any thoughts on this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Obsidian

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dance classes are the best place to do kino

but not many people go to those
 

everywomanshero

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Not to discourage you, but I sense you are overanalyzing. I never try to major in the minors. I do what gets me the most results fast.

Therefore, I don't recommend taking girls to the gym. By all means flirt with women there, but the best place to take a day 2 is to your apartment for sex. It is many times less likely you can pull a lay in the gym environment, therefore it is very ineffecient.
 

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"dance classes" wow that sounds interesting. I hear theres a shortage of males too :p
 

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I took ballroom dancing for a number of years... it is an amazing place to do meet women, an impressive skill to have, and actually quite a bit of fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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vanrijnr1

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Try the Latin scene. Ballroom dancing is easier in some ways, but it's rather stiff, not so natural to me. Go to the local Latin club and take salsa classes for a year. You'll never have a shortage of women and more than that you will have confidence like never before.
 

NickBe

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The GYM is good also because the women are exercising which means they are sweating, not wearing makeup and most likely not dressed like they would like. This make them feel a little insecure and gives you a slight edge.
 

L777

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Yea its good but why take emto the gym? If they like you enough to be cool with you doing it there then they'll be cool with you doing it at home or wherever.....girls do actually like this stuff you know, its not something you have to sneak in without her realising it!!
 

Bonhomme

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I took some swing dancing classes, and there were more men than women. And a fair % were couples, at that. Go figure.
 
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