"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I dunno if this has ever been mentioned before, but I just thought of this. You know how yawning is contagious.

***yyyaaaaawwwwwnnnnnn***

think about it, a nice looonnng relaxing yawn.

I BET YOU'RE DOING IT RIGHT NOW!

Well, I think you might beable to use it to your advantage! Think about it. If you're yawning and somebody's checking you out...their probally gonna yawn too!

I have yet to test it out, but hey I'll try it out monday.

Well, think about it, hope I helped a little :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I donno man. Yawning shows lack of interest. If some chick yawned while I was on at date with her, especially if she did it more then once then I would take it as a sign that she wasn't interested in me and wasn't having fun.
 
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Originally posted by RaMar
I donno man. Yawning shows lack of interest. If some chick yawned while I was on at date with her, especially if she did it more then once then I would take it as a sign that she wasn't interested in me and wasn't having fun.
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I think he was saying you should do it in a large group of people (i.e. a classroom) to know if a specific person had been looking at you. It would be pretty pointless in one-on-one situation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yawning doesn't necessarily mean that I'm bored, just that I'm tired. Plus, like you said, I could just be yawning because other people are. It's a group dynamic.

And anyway, if a girl likes you, it really isn't hard to tell. They'll let you know. If you're not sure if she likes you, then she probably doesn't.
 
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I donno man. Yawning shows lack of interest. If some chick yawned while I was on at date with her, especially if she did it more then once then I would take it as a sign that she wasn't interested in me and wasn't having fun.
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whoops...i think you took it the wrong way :D . I ment for this to be used in places like... if you're in the middle of class to give you a slight little bit of an idea of who could possibly be checkin you out.
 
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i think you have a point there.
im gonna try it. take my word for it.

but maybe not too much tho. cuz it might send out a message that i dont really mean.

random thought: really makes you imagine how they'd look when they'd go down on ya. haha
 
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This **** works!

Once during a weird electronics lab, we were all crowding around. I yawned and 2 other girls followed almost instantly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yawning

In theory it works but yawning can attract attention to0, which gets people to look at you.

Most people make a noise or a large change in facial features which both can be noticed by someone not paying attention to you and then they look over and yawn to but you get the wrong idea.
 
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