Good advice guys. Buddy I don't think you screwed up in this instance, other than asking girls out by text is not the preferred method... You say she sorta blew you off a year ago, so... you must have done something a YEAR AGO to get her to feel this way. The fact that she texted you "what's up" only really means she's not repulsed by you, but this isn't going anywhere quick. Girls have to put effort into dating.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I just screwed up guys.
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