Good advice guys. Buddy I don't think you screwed up in this instance, other than asking girls out by text is not the preferred method... You say she sorta blew you off a year ago, so... you must have done something a YEAR AGO to get her to feel this way. The fact that she texted you "what's up" only really means she's not repulsed by you, but this isn't going anywhere quick. Girls have to put effort into dating.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I just screwed up guys.
- Thread starter Klippymitch
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