Good advice guys. Buddy I don't think you screwed up in this instance, other than asking girls out by text is not the preferred method... You say she sorta blew you off a year ago, so... you must have done something a YEAR AGO to get her to feel this way. The fact that she texted you "what's up" only really means she's not repulsed by you, but this isn't going anywhere quick. Girls have to put effort into dating.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I just screwed up guys.
- Thread starter Klippymitch
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